This newsletter is all about the actual thinking about a move. Is it time? Is it now? Next year? Next month?  For some it comes suddenly, for some over time. When Bob had a health scare last year, it was facing us and I had to remind myself of the things that I counsel clients about. He worried about the stairs. Maybe you worry about the yard upkeep, or maintenance on your home, or repairs that need attention. Maybe you just want a simpler life, time to enjoy what you have amassed? The answer is as individual as we are. But if any of these articles hit home, maybe it gets you thinking.

What Seniors Really Worry About When Buying a Home After Retirement

After working with dozens of older adults making a move for their next chapter, I can tell you: buying a home in retirement isn’t just about square footage or curb appeal. 

As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®), here are some of the top questions I hear:

•         “Will this home still work for me if my health changes?”
•          “Can I afford this on a fixed income?”
•          “Is this the right location?” 
•          “Will I feel safe and supported here?” 
•          “How do I even begin to downsize?”

Buying a home after retirement comes with new questions—and new possibilities. If you’re thinking about a move, let’s have a conversation about what matters most to you.

Managing the Emotions of Moving

For many seniors, a home has been a place to raise a family and create lasting memories. For them, downsizing may involve more than just changing addresses. It can mean sifting through decades of accumulated items that are the threads of life. So, the process of downsizing isn't merely logistical; it's also emotional. 

As an SRES® Professional, my expertise in downsizing will be valuable. As will my compassion, understanding and support during this potentially challenging time. Some ideas to keep in mind to help my senior clients manage the emotions of this move may include:

Don’t go it alone

Moving to a smaller living space is a big transition. Seek physical & emotional support of friends and family. Your Realtor has resources of people who provide various services and can help break down the tasks.

Accept the emotions

Recognize you will have emotions about the move. There may be sorrow and sadness as memories associated with the years spent in your home come up. It’s ok to “feel” and have a hug or a good cry.

Keep a focus on the future

The upside might be the smaller household allows more free time to enjoy activities and meet new friends. Make a list of reasons to be excited about your move, and plans. It helps you focus on the future.

Start small

Focus on smaller, easier to accomplish tasks, like a drawer, cabinet or closet or an entire room, whatever helps and moves you forward. Use our tools of tape and sorting to give a sense of accomplishment.